{"id":1466,"date":"2013-09-17T22:00:14","date_gmt":"2013-09-17T22:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theparentsocial.com\/?p=1466"},"modified":"2019-12-20T13:56:19","modified_gmt":"2019-12-20T13:56:19","slug":"being-the-new-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theparentsocial.com\/being-the-new-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"Being the new girl – Starting School"},"content":{"rendered":"
Sofia started school on Friday the 13th<\/sup>\u00a0, we decided to send her to a Small Boarding School<\/a> this year…<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n My husband Matt took the day off work, and as it was a 9.45am start we had a leisurely breakfast before I went upstairs and helped get Sofia into her uniform: a real rite of passage.\u00a0 We came back down and had a little photo shoot (obviously I did the obligatory posting onto Facebook).<\/p>\n The five of us went up to the school and were personally greeted by the Deputy Head a couple of minutes early (we were a little eager!). I hadn\u2019t realised that each child had a designated slot, so it was a nice surprise to have this time dedicated to us. We were escorted to the cloakroom, given a run through of what she needed to do and were then taken to Sofia\u2019s class and delivered to her teacher. Sofia\u2019s teacher immediately introduced her to the morning routine, had a few comforting words to say to us, and then that was it, we said goodbye. It was a slick operation but carried out in a very compassionate manner. \u00a0I had absolutely no worries about leaving her.<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n The four of us then headed straight off to go and check out a venue for Sofia\u2019s next birthday party. Her birthday isn\u2019t until December, but last year taught me that forward planning is key\u00a0Planning a child’s birthday party<\/a>.<\/p>\n We had to run a few errands so didn\u2019t bother going back home as it was a 12pm pick up.\u00a0 In no time at all we were on our way back to collect her.<\/p>\n Semi-disaster struck; we were five minutes from the school at a very busy crossroads and the traffic lights were out. It was chaos. I ended up queued outside of the classroom door at 12.02pm. The children were still coming out one by one as I got there so Sofia wasn\u2019t sat on her own. However, she was the last one to be collected\u00a0#FAIL<\/a>. I felt really terrible. Matt thought I was insane.<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n We needed to be at the school for 8.50am. Once again it was a 12pm pick up, so a nice gentle start. My dad’s been brilliant. He comes over in the mornings to sit with the twins whilst I walk Sofia to school. It takes a lot of the stress out of it.<\/p>\n However, I still seemed to panic on Monday morning. There was no designated slot, going in via the office in our little bubble for a lovely meet and greet. Instead it was the bun fight of the school run. I didn\u2019t know what gate to queue up at and what the protocol was. I was stressing so much that we left very early. We were second out of the entire school at the gate. I asked the lady in front what the procedure was. She was with her grandson and had no idea. A kindly mum behind overheard and said that the other gate was best for Sofia’s class. Phew. I knew what we were doing and no longer felt like the \u2018new girl\u2019.<\/p>\n At 8.50am someone came out and unlocked the gate. There was a semblance of politeness. However, we were all chomping at the bit to get in and to the cloakroom. It was pandemonium. I looked at the narrow, single door opening and breathed a massive sigh of relief that I didn\u2019t have the double buggy with me.<\/p>\n I\u2019m actually feeling slightly overawed and it\u2019s not about Sofia settling in; she\u2019s taken to it like the proverbial duck.<\/p>\n I didn\u2019t get the memo about bringing in photos from their summer holidays, so I did emergency printouts and then spent an evening labelling and sticky back plastic-ing.<\/p>\n On Sofia\u2019s first day, I received a letter about the first PTA meeting, which is this Thursday, and another letter about Jeans for Genes<\/a> day this Friday (must remember no uniform). Then there\u2019s a reading meeting next week.<\/p>\n Today I received the September newsletter, which includes all of the important dates for the Autumn term and is two pages long: meetings, assemblies, quiz nights, costumes to be made, harvest festival; and don\u2019t even get started on the Christmas activities. I’ve just spent over half an hour putting everything on the calendar. Then there was the NHS questionnaire.<\/p>\n My head is spinning!<\/p>\n <\/p>\nStarting school<\/h2>\n
First morning<\/h2>\n
Second day<\/h2>\n
Three days in<\/h2>\n